Enjoy Today While Achieving More

Travel your chosen path with clarity of purpose.

Goal Alignment

Learn to walk your path in alignment with your values and purpose.

Healthy Relationships

Gain more time to spend with the people you love and confidence setting boundaries with others.


Develop healthy habits and a productive routine that empowers your personal growth.

Career Success

Define your goals, track your progress, and gain balance while achieving more.

Defeat Distractions.

Life can be overwhelming. Chores, obligations, overwork, and daily distractions drain our time and energy. We’re constantly being pulled in every direction and it can seem impossible to navigate the noise and achieve the goals we want in life. When we finally do have success, we’re often left feeling drained with other parts of our lives in turmoil.

Have you met Lexi?

She’s our AI assistant created to support and empower you on your journey to a more defined, fulfilling life. She can help you set intentional goals, cultivate daily disciplines, and offer guidance that aligns with your values, promoting personal responsibility and empowerment. Go ahead! Ask her a question!

Our Define My Day Planners  bring calm to your day. 

Create monthly goals, weekly milestones, and daily priorities to align your everyday actions with your long-term goals.

Better identify and avoid distractions that pull you away and drain your energy, creating more chaos – leaving you overwhelmed and exhausted.

1. Gain focus and awareness
2. Improve mindfulness and mindset
3. Avoid costly distractions
4. Create a solid foundation
5. Define a life you love

When you Define Your Day, You Gain Clarity to Achieve More in a Healthy and Balanced Way

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What does using Define My Day look like?

Take 5-10 minutes to fill in the daily page.

Planning doesn’t need to be time-consuming. Define My Day allows you to get in, get out, and get going – helping you create a healthy, maintainable rhythm.

Work on your priorities as early as possible.

You’ll learn to create a daily framework to attack priorities before the chaos of the day gets in the way. 

Review your progress.

Gain insight into what went right and what may have gone wrong through our quick daily journal prompts and 2-minute weekly self-appraisals.

About Me

Hi there! I’m Nick, a single Xennial dad, juggling fatherhood and entrepreneurship while trying to become the best guy I can be. I created the Define My Day Planner & Journal to help me stay on top of my work life, but it turned out to be a lot more than that. It’s now become a journey of healing, personal growth, and trying to keep my plants alive (just kidding, but not really).

My top priority is raising my two amazing boys to become the best, well-balanced men they can be. Along the way, I’m also working on building healthy new relationships, habits, and routines for myself and learning every day. I believe we’re all on this journey together, and I’m certainly no guru—I’m growing and learning right alongside you.

I’m the proud owner of Defined Life, where we help people align their daily actions with their goals and passions so they can be their most authentic selves. Our motto, “Fuel Your Passion. Define Your Life,” is something I try to live by—even when it’s a challenge to figure out what your passion is.

When I’m not busy being a dad or running my business, I love writing blog posts about overcoming hardship, building healthy relationships, productivity, mindfulness, living a balanced life, and overall health and well-being.

So, join me on this journey as we heal, grow, and maybe even find that elusive work-life balance. I’m here for you, and I’m here with you. Keep moving forward.



Define My Day has changed my life by greatly reducing my anxieties. Despite my devotion to task and calendar apps, I always felt I was wasting time and wondered if my constant activity was really getting me anywhere.

Define My Day made me more productive by showing me what’s most important to me and giving me a sense of accomplishment.

I have been utilizing the Define My Day journal for over a year now and absolutely love it! I have accomplished so much more with this easy to use tool than I have with any other method in the past. I am a Define My Day lover!!

I was given my first Define My Day Planner as a gift and I immediately loved the concept – it was short, sweet and to the point

Don’t Wait Any Longer. Start Forging Your Own Path Today!

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